Warning: Magic & Miracles Ahead
I had to step in.
I’ve been writing about dating and relationship issues for so long that it hurts to see the kind of advice out there. “It’s for your own good, ladies.” But is it?
If someone tells you what to do to get a guy, then you’re going to do it, right? Anything for a shot at a lifetime of happiness.
But maybe what they’re telling you makes you feel inadequate.
As if dating is like applying for a dozen jobs in hopes of getting one interview. And you have to be on top form to score the job. If you slip up and show you’re human, you’ll be laughed out the door.
I can't help but groan. Nothing could be further from the truth.
So I wrote my own book.
One that distilled a decade of observing, thinking, and writing about dating and relationships.
I’ll be honest: I love this book. I wish every woman had it.
Because you ARE beautiful. You ARE wonderful. You are kind and good and sweet.
You don’t need to be told you’re not pretty enough, not wearing the right clothes, not making the right kind of small talk, or not sending off the right signals.
We need to stop talking about our own perceived inadequacies, as if there’s something wrong with us because a man hasn’t chosen us yet.
We need to start talking about love. About radiating love. About being love.
Because who you are inside is the root of everything that’s happening to you with men.
It’s not your looks.
It’s not what happened to you in the past.
It’s how you feel about yourself, who you are, and what you deserve.
